Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
Lao Tzu
Your primary relationship is essential to your emotional health and well being. The trouble is that there is not a person alive who has not experienced trouble in his or her primary relationship. It is inevitable. The good news is that the very problems that you are experiencing with your partner are clues to what will make you and your partner healthier and happier and will allow your love to grow.
That is, of course, if you take the time to look at the problems and challenges there are in your relationship. This can be very difficult for many couples because they feel that if they name or admit a problem they are not loving. This is simply false. Speaking honestly and openly, with a trained therapist and your significant other, about your needs and your wants in your relationship opens communication and a way to a more fulfilling relationship. There is no relationship that does not have some trouble but all that means is that every relationship can grow. Please take the time and the opportunity to grow your primary relationship. Your life can be made brand new.